Sweet Friend, Good Morning

Finding yourself upon my guidance today is a sign.  Angels use many ways to lovingly communicate with you.

Calmly and in love Angels take your hand.  You hurt.  This hurt intertwined within layers of your human.  Times pass where you forget its there.

Child any item dug underground, takes but a few stokes of the spade to bring it closer to the surface.

Life will provide many spades…it may be a place, an event, a tv show, a song, a sound, the actions of another….and that buried hurt burrows its way back into your present.

You carry unhealed wounds and guilt from the past.  Although it is perfectly normal to feel hurt, the Universe is nudging you to move on to the next chapter in your life and this requires you to stop replaying unpleasant memories that pull you back to the past.

To move forward to the next level of spiritual growth, clear away any bitter feelings that influence your way of thinking and take away your personal power to progress in your life mission.

The Law of Cause and Effect states that whatever you put out in the Universe is returned to you. 

This means striking back at those who have hurt you will never bring peace to you and your family’s future generations.  Striking is not alone a physical action or a verbal action…but an emotional strike, mental strike, subconscious strike…are equally lethal, more so for many humans.

Those who have read with me before in Spiritual Counselling Readings will know I speak often that there is no coincidence that you are born to your family, and family to you.  That there will be common themes of lessons which travel through generations.  Each spirit purposely choosing the placement of this souls human existence.  So I shall repeat.

Striking back at those who have hurt you will never bring peace to you and your family’s future generations.

This includes disconnecting and closing your heart from the person who hurt you as your way of protection.  Keep in mind, disconnecting is a form of punishment when the person who hurt you is in need of forgiveness and only you can give it.  It is possible that you may fear going back to being powerless, if you forgive.

So the important message is to forgive in order to break free from the karmic cycle of resentment.

When you examine yourself, you might find that there is a part of you that is similar to the person you are trying to forgive.  It is often not liking, nor wishing to see this shared trait, that our reaction to the other is so heightened.  Egos choice of view for its own human, is perfection.  It prefers to be right.  It will do anything to avoid its own flaws, so distraction of heightened hurt and resentment to the other…comes quickly from its toolbox.

From this perspective this will help you recognize that you and the other person are not all that different.

So before you can forgive others you have to self-heal by releasing personal disappointment and taking responsibility for your own feelings.  Then you can bring compassion and forgiveness to yourself and others.

Above all, heed this child.

When people hurt you in your past they were doing the best they could in that situation with what they’ve learned.

Some people might be unkind, but bear in mind that they have not learned all their lessons yet.

This means they only know how to deal with life’s challenges with the ‘tools’ that they were given so far.

In the big picture of the Universe some of the people in your life story have small roles to play and others have much larger roles.  Regardless of who was playing the ‘good guy who made you laugh’ or the ‘bad guy who hurt you’ – understand that all characters are necessary for your souls growth.

When real forgiveness happens there is an energetic change that ignites the healing process within you and triggers a new beginning for both you and the other person.

Chains are broken and you become free.

Forgiving is the greatest gift to self, not someone else.

Take time with this, walking with this guidance will alter your future.  Do not allow ego to discard this gift before even holding the present.

And share….so many lovely souls will thankyou.

With love, now and always

Zowie xxx

WalkswithSpirit