Why can’t I see them though???


Not everyone knows “what to do” when they die to start getting everyone’s attention.

So naturally, people (dead) think back themselves to all the ghost movies, stories, plots and pilots they’ve ever seen over the years. Or remembering tales shared of occurences that others have experienced when being visited.  Then they choose their favorite parts, to try and recreate and do.

Some settle more on a Patrick Swayze style haunting, and others, more a Casper, gigglesome type-style. Then some other, more wild ghost-personality types, will take their cues straight from the movie Beetlejuice.

Most mix it up and try a bunch of things, noting whatever ‘sticks’ and then continuing to expound on that, perfecting their craft.

In other words, things can get pretty wild.

It’s for this reason that whenever I have a close friend or family member  die myself, I’ll brush up on my old ghost stories or typical signs or if brave enough, films I’ve seen…. just to make sure I get all the wacky signs, and that don’t accidentally trick myself into believing it’s something more sinister when it’s not.

Friends who die far too early are often known for being over the top anyway – so why would this quality about them end in death?  And guess what…if someone was so important in your life when human….they will want to be important and ‘known’ once in spirit…things don’t alter quite as much as you thing.

From spirit my Mum still manages to help me make impulsive purchases…yup! She says.

When deceased friends or family visit, remember they are primarily doing it to hang out, have a good time, boost your mood, or perhaps: to ask you a favor.
So naturally, they’re going to want to lighten your mood first so you’ll be more receptive to their presence, or in the last case: butta ya up a little first, by doing something bold, wild and blatant, like:

– Opening your back door after dark (or just make it sound like it did), make creaking noises upstairs like someone is walking, tapping on your windows from the outside, knocking around pots and pans in the kitchen, etc.

– Act like a Poltergeist. Make things fly off walls, drop out of mid-air, turn on lights, move objects, transform into other forms, flicker lights, etc. Anyone can do this. But friends and uncles/brothers like to act this way most.

– Blow multiple lightbulbs in a week – and that’s not all. Some will explode other electronic items, glassware pieces, you name it: if it can be shattered or shorted . . . it can be done.

It’s not just Earthbound Spirits that will do this. I’ve seen regular spirits do it, if they deem it harmless, if it’s been passed by your guides first, and if it’ll get your attention. They’ll try whatever works if it’s important enough.

– Push a door open, then stop it dead swing like someone is holding the door ajar with a kick stop. The second action is the most necessary (the stop-hold mid-swing), but it’s for a purpose: then you can’t blame it on the wind or the fan, or on a slantly floor, in an old house. All common debunking themes, which can’t really be validated when a swinging door – just stops. Stops short.

– Encourage you to go shopping, and come home with crazy outfits. Or put other fun ideas into your head, music typically, especially if you are feeling bad. And especially if you are feeling bad about your friend dying or the fact that friends die, period.


Honestly, I’m impressed with all my families talents so far… wanted me to make contact for him just yeaterday.  So he decided to play the same monotonous guitar playing relentlessly that he could muster by chas and dave.  I have no idea if he could or even did play ‘chas and dave’ ‘rabbit rabbit rabbit’ song in real life….but thats what he chose…and yeah…drove me up the wall.  Baring in mind Ive not been in communication for 6 months….he did well.  Or shall we say….irritated the crap out of me til I text his girls.

So I need to ask him to take a bow, honestly, for being a great example here of what’s possible when friends/family die.

Everything listed here I have experienced.  In both spirit and earthbound spirits…there is a difference.

I’m sharing it with you here so that when crazy things start happening to you after a friend or someone special of yours dies, you’ll check yourself from thinking it’s something scary. That’s the least of your worries.

So if you are receiving signs like any of these listed above, but still can’t see the visiting person as a fully body apparition, stop: please don’t hate on yourself about this!

Why can’t I see them tho???

The most commonly asked question people ask me when they’re receiving plentiful signs, signs ‘o plenty, but they still haven’t seen their ghost. I mean, isn’t it enough already? Are you not already impressed? That’s what I want to know.

But alas, the seeing of the ghost is a choice the ghost themselves must make. Like, it’s not about you, okay?

Whether or not they use their energy to appear. That’s their choice. Not all do, not at first, anyway.

When a spirit comes to earth, think of it like they have an oxygen tank.

They can refill it at anytime, but for each visitation: they get one tank per.

So spirit people have a certain amount of energy in each of their visitations to use on whatever. But then once it’s gone, it’s gone. Then they have to go back and get more oxygen and isn’t that a bore. It’s like going to the Wawa.

So . . . some will opt to use their oxygen on sending more clairaudient messages instead, or for producing more elaborate physical signs, for visiting more people in shorter periods of time, for picking things up and getting them to fly off the wall and at your face (that’s an elaborate sign), for sending you text messages from beyond the grave, and so on and on.


Many spirits will in fact opt to not (their own free will choice) use their precious oxy on producing a full body apparition, at least not right away, mainly just because it’s viewed as a huge waste of energy that could be spent on other things more fun, engaging and dynamic: like visitation dreams, clairaudient messages, learning how to make stuff levitate, fly at your face…. you know 😂

My brother is very new to hearing and learning about what I do…and have always done.  He is starting to ask more and more…

He is also starting to experience more and more….after seeing me yesterday…he said that in the passenger seat of his car…his glove box which is only touch sensitive…just kept flinging open….and no one was anywhere near it.  Clever Mum I say….

With love xxx


10 things highly intuitive people do differently…

Intuition is challenging to define, despite the huge role it plays in our everyday lives. Steve Jobs called it, for instance, “more powerful than intellect.” But however we put it into words, we all, well, intuitively know just what it is.

Pretty much everyone has experienced a gut feeling — that unconscious reasoning that propels us to do something without telling us why or how. But the nature of intuition has long eluded us, and has inspired centuries’ worth of research and inquiry in the fields of philosophy and psychology.

I define intuition as the subtle knowing without ever having any idea why you know it, It’s different from thinking, it’s different from logic or analysis … It’s a knowing without knowing.”

Our intuition is always there, whether we’re aware of it or not.

Even when we’re not at a fork in the road, wondering what to do and trying to hear that inner voice, our intuition is always there, always reading the situation, always trying to steer us the right way.

But can we hear it?

Are we paying attention?

Are we living a life that keeps the pathway to our intuition unblocked?

Feeding and nurturing our intuition, and living a life in which we can make use of its wisdom, is one key way to thrive, at work and in life.
Cognitive science is beginning to demystify the strong but sometimes inexplicable presence of unconscious reasoning in our lives and thought.

Often dismissed as unscientific because of its connections to the psychic and paranormal, intuition isn’t just a bunch of hoo-ha about our “Spidey senses” — the U.S. military is even investigating the power of intuition, which has helped troops to make quick judgments during combat that ended up saving lives.

There is a growing body of anecdotal evidence, combined with solid research efforts, that suggests intuition is a critical aspect of how we humans interact with our environment and how, ultimately, we make many of our decisions.

Here are 10 things that people in touch with their intuition do differently.

They listen to that inner voice.


It’s very easy to dismiss intuition, but it’s a great gift that needs to be noticed.

The No. 1 thing that distinguishes intuitive people is that they listen to, rather than ignore, the guidance of their intuitions and gut feelings.

Everybody is connected to their intuition, but some people don’t pay attention to it as intuition, I have yet to meet a successful businessman that didn’t say, ‘I don’t know why I did that, it was just a hunch.'”

In order to make our best decisions, we need a balance of intuition — which serves to bridge the gap between instinct and reasoning — and rational thinking.  But the cultural bias against following one’s instinct or intuition often leads to disregarding our hunches — to our own detriment.

We don’t have to reject scientific logic in order to benefit from instinct, we can honor and call upon all of these tools, and we can seek balance. And by seeking this balance we will finally bring all of the resources of our brain into action.

They take time for solitude.


If you want to get in touch with your intuition, a little time alone may be the most effective way. Just as solitude can help give rise to creative thinking, it can also help us connect to our deepest inner wisdom.

Intuitive people are often introverted.

But whether you’re an introvert or not, taking time for solitude can help you engage in deeper thought and reconnect with yourself.

You have to be able to have a little bit of solitude; a little bit of silence, in the middle of craziness … you can’t recognize [intuition] above all of the noise of everyday life.

They create.


“Creativity does its best work when it functions intuitively…”

In fact, creative people are highly intuitive, and just as you can increase your creativity through practice, you can boost your intuition. In fact, practicing one may build up the other.

They practice mindfulness.

Meditation and other mindfulness practices can be an excellent way to tap into your intuition.

Mindfulness can help you filter out mental chatter, weigh your options objectively, tune into your intuition and ultimately make a decision that you can stand behind completely.  I have taught many and continue to do so, how to meditate to connect with ones whole spiritual self.  It is very different than the standard meditation that many people struggle with.

Mindfulness can also connect you to your intuition by boosting self-knowledge.

A 2013 study published in the journal Perspectives on Psychological Science showed that mindfulness — defined as “paying attention to one’s current experience in a non-judgmental way” — may help us to better understand our own personalities. Resulting in increased intuition, compassion, creativity and peace which are all wonderful side effects of meditating.

They observe everything.

look out window

“The first thing to do is notice — keep a little journal, and notice when odd things happen,”

You’ll gain a keen sense for how often coincidences, surprising connections and on-the-dot intuitions occur in your daily life — in other words, you’ll start to tap into your intuition.

They listen to their bodies.

Intuitive people learn to tune into their bodies and heed their “gut feelings.”

If you’ve ever started feeling sick to your stomach when you knew something was wrong but couldn’t put your finger on what, you understand that intuitions can cause a physical sensation in the body. Our gut feelings are called gut feelings for a reason — research suggests that emotion and intuition are very much rooted in the “second brain” in the gut.

They connect deeply with others.


Mind reading may seem like the stuff of fantasy and pseudo-science, but it’s actually something we do everyday. It’s called empathic accuracy, a term in psychology that refers to the “seemingly magical ability to map someone’s mental terrain from their words, emotions and body language,” according to Psychology Today.

When you see a spider crawling up someone’s leg, you feel a creepy sensation, similarly, when you observe someone reach out to a friend and they are pushed away, your brain registers the sensation of rejection.

When you watch your team win or a couple embrace on television, you feel their emotions as if you are there. Social emotions like guilt, shame, pride, embarrassment, disgust and lust can all be experienced by watching others.

Tuning into your own emotions, and spending time both observing and listening to others face-to-face can help boost your powers of empathy.

They pay attention to their dreams.


Paying attention to your dreams is a way to get in touch with your mind’s unconscious thinking processes. Both dreams and intuition spring from the unconscious, so you can begin to tap into this part of your mind by paying attention to your dreams.

At night, when you’re dreaming, you’re receiving information from the unconscious or intuitive part of your brain, if you’re attuned to your dreams, you can get a lot of information about how to live your life.  When in dream state spirit finds it much easier to communicate their messages.

They enjoy plenty of down time.

dream studies

Few things stifle intuition as easily as constant busyness, multitasking, connectivity to digital devices and stress and burnout.

We always have an intuitive sense about the people in our lives — on a deep level, we know the good ones from the “flatterers and dissemblers” — but we’re not always awake enough to our intuition to acknowledge the difference to ourselves. The problem is that we’re simply too busy.

We always get warnings from our heart and our intuition when they appear, but we are often too busy to notice.

They mindfully let go of negative emotions.

Strong emotions — particularly negative ones — can cloud our intuition. Many of us know that we feel out of sorts or “not ourselves” when we’re upset, and it may be because we’re disconnected from our intuition.

When you are very depressed, you may find your intuition fails.  When you’re angry or in a heightened emotional state … your intuition [can] fail you completely.  Your human ego blocks all communication with your soul and spirit self.

The evidence isn’t just anecdotal: A 2013 study published in the journal Psychological Science showed that being in a positive mood boosted the ability to make intuitive judgments in a word game.

That’s not to say that intuitive people never get upset — but your intuition will fare better if you’re able to mindfully accept and let go of negative emotions for the most part, rather than suppressing or dwelling on them.

So begin to accept and use the tool you have built within…..your intuition.  It’s real.

With love xxx


Sunday 17th June 2018


Angels tell of significant and necessary changes happening in your life that have been Divinely inspired and guided. These changes will bring about long-awaited circumstances and results and will fully align you with your true Divine life purpose and soul mission.


A message from your angelsthat it is time to let go of the ‘old’ that is no longer positively serving you.

Trust that they will be replaced with ‘better’. Release old doubts, fears and perceived obstacles, and if feeling any fears or confusion, ask for support and guidance from your angels.

Know that your angels are with you, always.


Keep a positive attitude and mind-set about the ‘new’ entering your life and keep an open mind as to the opportunities presenting themselves.

Remember that everything happens for a reason and nothing happens by chance. Even though the reason/s for the changes may not be clear at this point in time, trust that all will fall into place for you.

These changes have come about so that you can break free from old restraints and constraints and freely pursue your soul purposeas a spiritual being.


Angel Number 555 suggests that major life changes are taking place in many areas of your life. Trust that these changes are for both your immediate and long-term benefit.

Angels ask that you ‘go with the flow …’

With love xxx

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