A lot of people think that the hardest part about being a medium is having to see dead people everywhere.

It’s not.

But for most mediums, having to deal with Spirits and all the drama that comes with that is not the major drawback to going into the profession.

Social-related fears override spirit-related fears any day.

I know that most mediums will tell you that they don’t care what a skeptic thinks – but a perspective like that can take years of critical emails from complete strangers, nasty comments on facebook, and weird glares at social gatherings to develop.

It can take a whole lifetime of experiences to get you to a place where you are okay being where you are – and this holds true for mediums.

Many mediums begin as skeptics only to have their minds changed after years of repeated proof of the Afterlife.

At first, I was a skeptic, too . .

I was a skeptic of myself.

It took me doing over 100 of my own readings before, I, myself even dared to say,
“Okay . . .there must be something to this.”

At heart, mediums are humans and we want these things:
Love
Acceptance
And Belonging

For things to make logical sense for that is how we have been grown as human beings.

Even though we do something that’s not yet considered 100% a social norm (we’re trying to change that), we deserve these things just as much as any other person.

We fear that our abilities will not allow us social acceptance.
We want love, belonging, and connection as much as anyone else – and deserve it as all humans.

It doesn’t have to be that mediums are considered outcasts, or even weird.

Human life brings twists and turns which see us once again question that there could even be spirit in the universe…we too will latch on to disbelief when times are tough and seemingly unfair.  That if spirit were real these experiences in human life wouldn’t occur.

Of course we know deep down that there is a much bigger picture and we are living a human experience that our very spiritual self signed up for….lessons to be learnt and often only learnt in extreme and often painful times.

We too as humans will latch onto doubt and fear that what we do….chatting or seeing or feeling spirit…guides or angels…isn’t real.  That skeptics we should have remained for they knew all along…

Well our paths will see us stand the course.  Spirit may quiet and Spirit may still while your human catches the break it needs….they’ll show up soon enough.

You can help change this.
When you encounter a medium, rather than:
Backing away slowly
Immediately telling them why you don’t believe in their whole existence
Fearing that they are going to start reading you (we rarely ever do that, you know)
. . . just take a deep breath.

We’re likely not going to start rattling off the ghosts we see around you, nor are we planning to attack you back for not believing.
That’s not even compassionate or kind.

We’re just like you and our job is kind of cool.
And if you gave us a chance, we’d love to tell you all about it.

Of course post your experiences and comments below….

With love xxx

Today the murky waters began to clear. It is time that I now begin the new and second phase of my human existence on my spiritual journey.

I see and feel how I can continue to heal those guided to me by their guides and angels and know that I can give my very best even though my human will forever be learning…new…and healing.

The universe will give us what we most need when we are most ready.

I can now see how I can walk with spirit whilst my whole human and spiritual self learn, develop and heal….without doubt in my abilites to help and deliver love and light to humans who need and are meant to hear from the universe.

So….we will see where this new path takes us.

With love xxx

We are spirit encompassed in a human experience.

Your connection with self will takes twists and turns and tangents from left to right…forwards and back.  At times feeling highly elevated with your spiritual oneness, at other times feeling disconnected and entirely human trying to understand why courses of events occur, to you…to others.

Regardless of your level of ascension and spiritual awareness or development, know this.

Your team in spirit never leaves you.  No one human has less or more of a team than another.  All are loved. All are never left nor dropped nor alone.

Your team however will be very aware of your human course and at times will hit pause.  They will just be.  Be with you.  Neither pushing nor dragging you into spiritual communications or understandings.

They will know you need time.  Time.

Of course depending on your level of spiritual development it will appear as if they are not even there.  Of course this will be your humans choice and either an intentional or unintentional blocking.  There are some who are developed to hear, see and feel spirit and no matter your teams rigid rules around others contacting you.. well some spirits if they feel their need is urgent enough…will break through.

I will write a post explaining my most recent experiences during my time of pause and reflection.

So today if you feel disconnected, if you feel entirely human and almost a little lost and helpless…then know with a deep breath you simply are not.  That at times spirit hits pause.  Allowing you to carry you.  That you need time to reflect and pause and likely heal….the pause will see you realising what one may have been running from or hiding from.  That the need to share self and lift and carry others….in fact needs a pause.

So spirit pauses and says ‘do you, we do not leave you, do you in this moment and we will join you’.

We are often given what we most need during a time on a path we chose to walk.

With love xxx

 

 

I would recommend you to anyone looking for contact…

With love xxx